Know that the great destiny of a marriage is devotion, Taqorrub to Allah SWT, Itiba 'sunnah Rasul and expect the birth of children and descendants. For through marriage it will be eternal and orderly. And ignoring Him means an eternal destruction and annihilation of nature.
It is a habit that can not reap without planting seeds, then cultivate and care for them with bassic theories and technical agriculture. And also need some grace time until the fruit
ready to be harvested.